Please help, I am very unhappy with my purchase of Onda, I have been open minded, I received it May 7, 2020, in the middle of the Covid quarantine, so it's not like I haven't had time to "experiment" with Onda. I find attempting to merely insert it, quite painful. I must first orgasm, with outer clitoris stimulation and then over lube, internally and try and position Onda for insertion. Once inserted, the fit feels uncomfortable, activating the gspot stimulation, only intensifies an unnerving, unpleasant urge to urinate. I realize I cannot return Onda but I am hoping there's some secret to unlock the pleasure others have experienced, perhaps I'm doing it wrong, please help.